Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Play ball ...

Back in August, Pam and I had the opportunity to celebrate our wedding anniversary in a rather unique way -- we went to a minor league baseball game. This was #48, nothing special, but well on our way to #50.  You know, I used to see a lot of articles in the paper highlighting couples celebrating their 50th, but not so many lately.  Either they have already been there and are steaming toward even bigger numbers, or there might be a whole lot of them in the same boat as we are (all of us Baby Boomers).  But it could be, too, that maybe not as many stay together that long or maybe some have died off before they made it.

Regardless, we have made it this far, and one thing I have learned over the years is that if you want to have a long and happy life together, treat each other as though there is nothing you wouldn't do for the other and nothing is too good for that special person in your life.

So having said that, I spent a great deal of time thinking what I could get her to make #48 somewhat special.  Finally, it came to me -- I'll take her our for a show and dinner...two of her favorite things.  Boy, do I know how to treat my woman!!

I called the box office at the Dayton Dragons and got two seats behind home plate (remember -- nothing but the best) and even got the Jeep washed before we went.  I always like to take my sweetie out in clean wheels.  It seems that Dayton was playing the Lansing Lugnuts that night -- doesn't get much better than that.  OK, OK -- if you don't think that a good minor league baseball isn't a good show, you have never been to a game at that level.  The players hustle, there are dancing mascots and vendors shooting T-shirts up into the crowd.  I remember going to one of the Columbus Clipper's games back in the 80s and when a player hit a home run, everyone got up and danced and rang cow bells.  Tell me you've got something that compares with that!!  BTW -- in this picture of us in our seats, is that lady behind photobombing us?


Oh, yeah, back to the dinner part.  Well, ballpark hot dogs and popcorn usually top the night off.  Sometimes I'll even go for a slice of (highly overpriced) pizza and a beer.  And if it is a really good game and the evening is a good one, I might even spring for a foam finger. Uhhh -- probably not.

 So that pretty much wrapped it up for #48.  And as the old Left-hander used to say, "We're rounding third and heading home."  Making our way toward the big 50!

I found this picture (below) which kinda sums up the two of us... just a couple of old prarie dogs making our way through life.  This was a fun twist on a wedding anniversary celebration.  Not something we would do all the time, but definitely fun.

Our wedding was many years ago. The celebration continues to this day. (Gene Perret)


Hooah

Sunday, November 19, 2017

Never trust a phone posting ...

Early last week I saw on my phone in the Google section that is supposed to keep me up to date on tracking my favorite sports teams, a thing that said that OU was playing Clemson in basketball.  I thought -- well it's possible, so I looked some more and the ap said that the game was at Ohio at 5:00 p.m.

I thought it a bit strange that Clemson would come to Ohio for an early season game.  If it had said that Ohio was going to Clemson I would have believed that.  OU isn't really the kind of team that would draw Clemsonesque  teams, especially in what is usually the "let's play a patsy to get the kinks out" time of the season.  Usually teams such as OU are the "patsy" teams others want to schedule.  But what the heck -- two levels of this ap said "Clemson at Ohio" so I told my wife I would take her down to Athens for the game.  It was a decent day and might be kind of fun.

So we drove the 3 hours to Athens.  My first clue that there was something wrong was that I  didn't see any "Event Parking" signs as I drove up to the Convo.  But we were a little early so I figured maybe the signs weren't out yet.  However, as we found a parking place and walked up to the doors of the Convo -- and there wasn't a soul around, well I knew something must be up.  So we walked over to Baker Center and asked the gal at the book store check-out counter if there was a game here tonight.  The deer in the headlights look should have been a sign.  After all, I couldn't smell any "weed" in the area.  Well, she looked it up on the computer and sure enough, her computer confirmed that there was a Clemson team that was to be playing Ohio at 5:00 p.m.  She then looked one other place -- the Athletic department website -- and it said the game was in Charleston, SC.  The "at" part was since both teams were part of an early season  tournament and neither one was actually the "home" team, they just assigned one as home and the other one as the visitor... thus the screwy wording on the phone ap.

So --------------- we bailed the car out of the parking garage and headed home.  All was not lost however, as we were able to listen to the game on the radio until we got to about Logan where it faded out.  I think that's also about when the team faded.  They lost the game pretty handily.

But again, all was not lost as we decided to stop at the 94th Aero Squadron in Columbus for dinner.  This is one of our all-time favorite places in the world to eat.  Great food and super atmosphere.

Might look a little ragged but by the time I took this picture we had driven about 6 hours for dinner -- a trip that might have taken 1 1/2 hours max on any other day.  But like I said -- good food, good wine, good story.  The radio guy said they would play again tomorrow night against Dayton. Now we're trying to figure out if we should try to drive to Charleston, drive to Dayton, drive to Athens or just stay home and go to the Sidney Ohio Winter Wonderland parade.  Chose the parade.

You know, every once in a while you just have to have something crazy like this in your life to give you things to look back on and laugh.  We were only out a few bucks for gas and some time, and got a free pass on the stadium hot dog and popcorn.  Pretty good trade for dinner in Columbus.

All great stories in one's life become grander at the dinner table.

Hooah

Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Refurbished and ready to go ...

About 20 years ago or so, our son made us a sign for our back yard area -- a piece we put over by the pond to show off the Bailey's Harbor area.  It was there year-round and really took a beating over the years.  Winters in Ohio can really do a number on outdoor things.

It was a wooden sign, and the surface was coated with several coats of marine varnish,  But, again, Ohio winters extract a pretty heavy price for being outdoors.  I am not sure how long this sign lasted before it became unstable.  It was followed by another sign he made and that one lasted for a number of years too.  But for the last 4 or 5 years we have been without anything there and it looked prfetty bare.

So, I took the original sign to a wood shop and had them remake it.  They did a pretty good job of using a lot of the original wood and putting it back together.  It sure looks good hanging out there. 

I had planned to surprise my wife with this for our anniversary.  She liked that sign and really missed it.  She is pretty good at surprising me with Christmas, anniversary and other gifts.  And since she says I am not very good at surprising her, this was my chance to pull one off on her.  Well ----- let's just say that I moved up the ladder of surprise presentations a bit with this.  Totally caught her off guard.  Worked out rather well, if I do say so myself.

Having that sign back is like having an old friend come back into our lives.  We like it for the memories of our trip to Bailey's Harbour, Wisconsin; for memories of the GREAT brown lab named Bailey who was part of our lives for 16 years; and for our son having made this for us.  Good stuff.  Welcome back old friend.

To be with old friends is very warming and comforting. (Ian Zierling)

Hooah
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Monday, November 13, 2017

Got a little catching up to do ...

Well, it certainly has been a long time since I sat down behind this keyboard.  In fact, it's been too long so I plan to go on a marathon to catch things up.  This first article will deal with a subject that kinda rocked my world for several months.

About this very time last year, I went in for one of those Medicare wellness check-ups.  First of all, they were going to pay for it, so I figured that since I had not had a physical since I retired from the Army in 2008, what the heck.  I figured the worst he could do was yell at me for being about 20 pounds overweight, but I could take care of that.  Also figured that he would order some blood work and that was nothing new so -- I called and scheduled it.  You know, it's easy to make phone calls, but it's another thing when it gets down to a few days before the appointment.  Maybe I won't feel good that morning and have to cancel.  I guess I can't say I just forgot, because then they would charge me.  So I was committed.  Besides, my wife knew about it and she would make sure I made it there -- on time.

OK.  Yep -- he yelled at me for being overweight, and said that could cause diabetes (which I knew already ran in my family). But that was not what he was most concerned about -- it seems my PSA results were over the moon.  He was sending me to see a urologist to get this looked at. Like real soon.

OK.  I have been told before that I have an enlarged prostrate, and that we just need to keep an eye on it.  'Course that was 11 years ago when I was leaving the Pentagon.  So after about a month or so, (so much for real soon), I was able to get in to see the doctor.  After about an hour of poking, listening, and digesting what was being said, I walked out of his office trying to get my head around the "C" word.  Yep --"prostate cancer ... aggressive ... need to do something about it soon ... real soon... I am ordering more blood work and I will see you back here in a week."  Boy -- what a drive home !!

So in a week, we were back in his office and things had calmed down a bit.  The world hadn't come to an end, California hadn't fallen into the ocean, and I had settled down a lot.  This time, he outlined a plan which called for radiation treatments (no surgery -- too old and not positive it would do the trick) and meds.  My wife and I went home, Pam did a lot of research on doctors that were recommended and hospitals for radiation, we talked to some guys who had had this before -- both surgery and the procedure he outlined for me, prayed, and decided to go with his plan.

So that was in late April.  Radiation started in May and ended in mid-July.  One treatment every week day for 45 days (10 weeks).  I had my work done at the Premiere Health Facility in Troy and those doctors and technicians and nurses were absolutely the best !!   You know, going into this you don't have any idea what the outcome will be, what the side-effects could be, you just know it probably isn't good, but hope it will all work out.  I met people there who were really hurting and in a bad way.  But you know what -- I never heard one cross word, saw one sour-puss expression or any short tempers from the techs, nurses or doctors.  They really made it  an OK experience -- at least for me.  I thanked God each day I left that place that my condition was no worse than it was and was, hopefully, getting better each day.

Well, after the treatments ended, the doctors wanted more blood work to check to see if the PSA numbers had really improved and the treatment had done what it was supposed to do.  Well ----- my numbers went from the upper 20s to 0.6 !!  The meds were working and the doctor thinks the radiaiton did what it was supposed to do. Thank you Lord.

I cannot thank all those involved enough -- the doctors, technicians, nurses, neighbors -- my wife.  On the last treatment day, my neighbor had made some signs and sent them in with one of the techs who lives up near us.  So when I got back to the room for the last treatment, it was quite a surprise.


The neighbor boys who go fishing with me all the time at our pond made some of these signs.  They even put them in our house while we were gone.  Great neighbors!!

So this is something I will have to keep an eye on for the rest of my life, but as long as the numbers stay good, I think I was/am pretty lucky.  I know mine wasn't anything, and I certainly think about those people I met at the hospital, but it got my attention. 

When I had my heart attacks, when I had my issues in Iraq, when we had that bus wreck on one of our Vet trips to DC and they all worked out OK, I told myself that God still had something He wanted me for.  It wasn't my time yet, and for that I thank Him.

Oh yeah, I know none of you who are reading this are as dumb as I was and have not had your PSA checked.  This is one of those things that can be pretty much a non-issue if caught early.  So, as Larry the Cable Guy would say -- "Git 'er done."

From the bitterness of disease man learns the sweetness of health. (Catalan Proverb)

Hooah

P.S.  One more thing -- in this process I have lost 25 pounds.  Guess that first doctor won't be able to yell at me now :-)