Sunday, May 26, 2013

Memorial Day 2013 Address...

I had the privilege to address the Memorial Day Ceremony at the Port Jefferson cemetery today.  This is the address:



This celebration of the lives and sacrifices of the service men and women of our great nation began on May 5, 1866 in Waterloo, New York.  It was originally called Decoration Day because those people in New York chose that day to decorate the town with flags dipped at half-staff.  They also hung black mourning ribbons and cloth from the trees and on the bushes throughout the town in order to celebrate and praise not only the living Union Veterans of the Civil War but also to remember their patriotic dead.  In addition, a General by the name of John B. Murray led a march by troops, civic societies and local residents into the cemeteries to place flowers on the graves of those who gave their lives during the war.  This was the first observance and parade for what we now call Memorial Day.

What a fitting honor it is all these years later to still celebrate our veterans.  So many things come and go…traditions fade…honors are forgotten… and lessons once learned,  are all-too-soon forgotten, only to be relearned the hard way.  That is why it is such an honor to be here to participate in the celebration of the lives and memories of our veterans.

When I was preparing for this time with you, I looked for reasons that would bring all of us here today …for commonalities, or threads that might weave themselves throughout these grounds.

I asked myself what it was, other than the obvious, that all of these veterans had in common. 

For instance, what was it that William Hughes, who served in the Civil War and is buried just over there a bit would have in common with Michael Brandewie, who not too long ago served in the Navy and is buried back there a ways just on the other side of that road;

or what Motor Machinist Mate 2nd Class Lester Hensen, who served in the Navy and died the year I was born would have in common with Elizabeth and Lowell Burchett, who each served their country, one in the Coast Guard and one in the Army,  and then got married and spent the rest of their lives together. 

And I wondered what Pvt. Merrill Henson (Lester’s brother), who served in WWI, could possibly have in common with Cpl. Raymond Nettleship who was killed in action in Belgium in 1918.

I know of some of the things they definitely have in common ---yet could anything be more contradictory than the lives of our soldiers? They love America, so they spend long years in foreign lands far from her shores. They revere freedom, so they sacrifice their own that we may be free. They defend our right to live as individuals, yet yield their individuality in that cause. And perhaps most paradoxically of all, they value life, and so bravely ready themselves to die in the service of our country.

And there are probably a lot of other things.   For instance,  Each of them at some point  wore a uniform of our country’s military.  Each of them left the comforts of their homes to do whatever they could, whatever it took to secure our liberties and freedoms.  Each of them had a birthday  --- and each of them had a date of death ----- and each of them ran a dash from the beginning  to the end.   

Now I’m not talking about the kind of dash an athlete would run. 
No, I’m talking about that dash -- that little… straight… line between the dates of birth and death that you see on their grave markers.  That line that represents their life’s story,  that dash that stands for everything they did in-between.  That is another thing they all have in common…and not just among their fellow veterans, but with everyone here today.  You see, each of us – each of them – has either completed their dash or is still working on it.

Having worked our Veterans trips to DC for the past 4 years, I learned that everyone has a story to tell, regardless of their walk in life or the choices that were made along the way.  While their dash may, at first, look nondescript or even ordinary,  theirs is the story of a lifetime.  For good or bad, heroic or tragic,  it is the heritage of a family and is woven into the fabric of this country.

There are many buried here who wrote their story as productive businessmen and women.   Many of their stories were written in the fields that make up a big part of our county, raising the crops and livestock that would feed a nation.  And even more stories were put together as teachers, doctors, mothers and fathers, laborers, builders, and such.  Some of the dashes were life-long in the making, while others were cut short and all-too-incomplete.  Some were brilliant, and others tragic.

But then there are those whose dash has something that makes them stand out.  Their dash is what brings the greatest impact to this Memorial Day.  Instead of a simple straight line, theirs really should look like a tree or a streak of lightning – branching out, streaking and burning meteorically across the skies from one date to the other.  Just like the ones I mentioned earlier, they too wrote a story of their life and tackled the building of a family, a community and a nation ---- but with one exception –  their dash burned with the same white heat of the patriots and warriors who made this country so great…who made this land the envy of others around the world. 

Part of their dash, and the part that made them stand out ---- that made them different --- that made them the reason for this day -- was their willingness to put on the uniform and go off to defend this country, to secure our freedoms, and to help to establish those same ways of life in countries far removed from their everyday lives, for people they would never know. 

These were the warriors who not only used their strength to defeat their enemies, but were also the generous and compassionate custodians of liberty who helped to rebuild countries, write constitutions and pave the way toward democracy.  They did not fight to conquer the world, but rather to liberate it. 

Richard Wurmbrand is a Romanian evangelist and Christian minister who spent 14 years imprisoned in Romania for his beliefs.  But in 1967 he wrote:
“(America) is the last “dike” holding back the rampaging floodwaters of evil.  If it crumbles, there is no other dike, no other dam, no other line of defense to fall back on.
America is the last hope of millions of enslaved peoples.  They look to it as their second fatherland.  In it lies their hopes and prayers.”

And when our servicemen and women finished their part of this ongoing mission, they shed their uniforms and went home to pick up the tools of nation building ---here, in their neighborhoods, villages, and cities,   and tackled this mission with the same tenacity and courage they showed in their military service.
For the families and friends of those who wore the uniform of our country, emotions often fill the soul when they visit memorials, stop by gravesites, or participate in patriotic events such as this one.  As we look around on this Memorial Day, we should not just see the final resting places of soldiers, or the names on their markers, but we should also call to mind their dash, their life’s story. 

And so, it is our purpose not only today but for years to come to remember their excellence in humanity ----- their heroism, and their dedication to the ideals of life and liberty for all people, and to never let their dashes fade or be forgotten. 

As we recall the names of those Veterans here today who fought these battles, conquered their fears, and overcame injuries and the insanity of wars, our presence adds credence to their story and validates their dash.  And we should do so not with sadness or depression, but with joy and faith and confidence in the path they have laid out for us and the story they have prepared.

Benjamin Harrison, who was our 23d President, and who also happened to serve during the Civil War as a Brigadier General of the Tenth Corps of the Army of the Cumberland once stated,
 “I have never been able to think of this day as one of mourning; I have never quite been able to feel that half-masted flags were appropriate on Decoration Day.           
 I have rather felt that the flag should be at the peak, because those whose dying we commemorate rejoiced in seeing it where their valor placed it.      
We honor them in a joyous, thankful, triumphant commemoration of what they did.”
 
 And so, to these points, I say today we too should REJOICE  in their courage. 
REJOICE  in these citizens who taught us what it really means to be an American. 
REJOICE in the hope that these veterans have given the world for its future.
 REJOICE in the eternal flame of courage and freedom that WILLIAM, MICHAEL, LESTER, ELIZABETH, LOWELL, MERRILL,  RAYMOND  and so many of their brothers- and sisters-in-arms gave us as their legacy.
REJOICE in their stories…
REJOICE…. and CELEBRATE their dash...

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